Dr. Lee Kinsey

“My work as a therapist is helping people place the pain they’re experiencing into a story of transformation that informs who they are becoming.” Lee Kinsey, PhD I believe that people can change. It’s not a simple process, it hurts like hell, and it costs a lot (time, energy, and money), but, with great investment and effort, change can be a revolution of thought, feeling, and behavior. I work with clients who are ready for that kind of change.

I’ve experienced a lot of change forced by life circumstances. Family trauma, spiritual/social abuse, grief, intimacy anorexia, and emotional stuntedness are all a part of my story of becoming a man who has had to learn to be vulnerable. Life has a knack for knocking us down and causing sometimes unimaginable pain and suffering. My work as a therapist is helping people place the pain they’re experiencing into a story of transformation that informs who they are becoming.

I believe that this change and the healing that follows always occurs within the context of secure relationships, and the secure relationship of counseling can be a hugely effective way of addressing both individual and relationship issues. The process of therapy is highly emotional and charged with energy, and it is my goal to help my clients experience the power of therapy with safety and efficiency.

I’ve come to understand that, as a man, I have been told that vulnerability is weakness, that needing others is anathema to my identity as a man. My graduate studies helped me understand the damage these messages caused. But it wasn’t until I fell in love that I personally realized the secret to healing. All of my academic training prepared me to understand my clients, but my personal experiences honed my ability to help them in a way no amount of schooling could. It was in a loving relationship that I experienced the trauma of my past, confronted the damage of negative masculinity, and learned to trust and heal. My training and my personal experience has taught me that safety, trust, and the intimacy that follows are important factors in change and healing. And I endeavor to provide the safety, trust, and intimacy that is necessary for others to heal as well – along with a sharp wit, a keen intellect, and a generous dose of humor.

My work with clients has become one of my greatest joys in life. I feel incredibly privileged to sit with the men and women who are hurting and struggling to understand themselves and their relationships. I would be honored if you would let me join you on your healing journey.

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About Me
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas (#67546). I hold a PhD in Counseling from the University of North Texas. I am also pursuing sex therapy certification from AASECT. In addition to my Ph.D. training in counseling at the University of North Texas, I have extensive training in the art of relationship counseling and sex therapy. I have specifically studied and practiced sex therapy, I actively conduct research on human sexual development, and I regularly speak, teach, and write on the subjects of sex and intimacy. I have been published in several national, academic journals, and I am currently in the process of writing a book. I am a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists, and I am an Adjunct Professor at Southern Methodist University where I work with graduate students who are studying to become counselors and sex therapists. My research involves collecting the sexual stories of adults, mostly adults aged 50 and older, to create a more holistic model of sexual development. All of my experience and training has prepared me to see clients’ issues within the vast complexity of their lives and relationships.

“In addition to Dr. Kinsey’s outstanding preparation to address a wide variety of counseling concerns, he is exceptionally prepared to work with people seeking help with concerns related to sexual identity, sexual decision-making, and sexual dysfunction. He combines up-to-date knowledge with a warm and genuine interest in each client’s wellbeing and growth.”

Jan Holden, Ed.D. LPC, LMFT, NCC, Chair of UNT’s Counseling Program

Lee Kinsey, PhD, LPC

There are few counselors like Laurie Poole. She is smart, experienced, funny, and focused as well as kind, caring, and personable. In short, Laurie is both nice and effective. I refer clients to her without hesitation and with the certainty that Laurie will help clients see past the distractions, spotlight core issues, and confront their most intractable problems with the focused compassion each of us deserves.

"Cory is one of the most real people I have ever met. She knows exactly how to get the best out of her clients and makes them feel empowered to make changes in their lives. She makes herself readily available to her clients and genuinely cares about their growth as people. She is never judgmental and is always sensitive to your feelings I would not be where I am, or who I am today without all her help."

The Montfort Group

"Cory is one of the most real people I have ever met. She knows exactly how to get the best out of her clients and makes them feel empowered to make changes in their lives. She makes herself readily available to her clients and genuinely cares about their growth as people. She is never judgmental and is always sensitive to your feelings I would not be where I am, or who I am today without all her help."

As an attorney and counselor at law, I know what it takes to develop a close relationship with a client and earn their trust, while ethically providing professional services. It takes strong interpersonal skills, empathy, and objectivity. Megha Pulianda possesses these necessary qualities and demonstrates them both in her professional practice and in her personal life. I've known Ms. Pulianda personally for several years and trust her judgment, professionalism, and ethics. Her clients would be well-served by her services as a therapist and fortunate to have her in their lives.

Joseph A. Wyly, Juris Doctorate

Joseph A. Wyly, Juris Doctorate

As an attorney and counselor at law, I know what it takes to develop a close relationship with a client and earn their trust, while ethically providing professional services. It takes strong interpersonal skills, empathy, and objectivity. Megha Pulianda possesses these necessary qualities and demonstrates them both in her professional practice and in her personal life. I've known Ms. Pulianda personally for several years and trust her judgment, professionalism, and ethics. Her clients would be well-served by her services as a therapist and fortunate to have her in their lives.

"Cory was the perfect counselor and advisor for me during this most difficult time in my life. She had a perfect balance between listening and advising, often leaving me with analogies that I still run through in my mind today. Together, we navigated these storms in my life together. I didn’t feel alone. I knew I had a unbiased person to share my deepest struggles with."

The Montfort Group

"Cory was the perfect counselor and advisor for me during this most difficult time in my life. She had a perfect balance between listening and advising, often leaving me with analogies that I still run through in my mind today. Together, we navigated these storms in my life together. I didn’t feel alone. I knew I had a unbiased person to share my deepest struggles with."

The best counselor allows a client to share their deepest secrets, their worst fears, their hidden feelings, and in doing so, she will allow the client to feel honored, respected, safe, protected, and capable of hope and resiliency. Megha fully embodies these characteristics of a counselor, and her caregiving to her clients in their process of growth is empowering, impactful, and beautiful.

Sarah Feuerbacher, Ph.D. LCSW-S
Clinic Director, SMU Center for Family Counseling

Sarah Feuerbacher, Ph.D. LCSW-S
Clinic Director, SMU Center for Family Counseling

The best counselor allows a client to share their deepest secrets, their worst fears, their hidden feelings, and in doing so, she will allow the client to feel honored, respected, safe, protected, and capable of hope and resiliency. Megha fully embodies these characteristics of a counselor, and her caregiving to her clients in their process of growth is empowering, impactful, and beautiful.

"I wish I could put into words how incredible Cory is and instrumental she has been in my recovery process, I will try, but it just wouldn't do it justice. She made me feel comfortable from the second I walked into her office and I could tell she genuinely cared about my progress and well-being. She was relatable and approachable and made me feel so comfortable. I am so very appreciative to her and will continue to see her and refer her to others who are needing an incredibly compassionate and genuine therapist."

The Montfort Group

"I wish I could put into words how incredible Cory is and instrumental she has been in my recovery process, I will try, but it just wouldn't do it justice. She made me feel comfortable from the second I walked into her office and I could tell she genuinely cared about my progress and well-being. She was relatable and approachable and made me feel so comfortable. I am so very appreciative to her and will continue to see her and refer her to others who are needing an incredibly compassionate and genuine therapist."

Dr. Lee Kinsey has been a trusted colleague since meeting him in 2011. He has been able to offer insights and assist people in even the most difficult of interpersonal and sexual struggles. Being well read and well studied on different theories and concepts, he readily integrates them into a personalized approach to each patient. The topics of sexuality and personal development have been an interest of his from the beginning and it is of no surprise that he focused his PhD on sex therapy. We rarely know in advance which fork in the road our lives will take. Wherever you are starting from, and wherever you want to go, you can trust that Dr. Lee Kinsey will be there for you as a knowledgeable therapist.

Donald Graneto, MD, Uptown Physicians Group

The Montfort Group

Donald Graneto, MD, Uptown Physicians Group

Dr. Lee Kinsey has been a trusted colleague since meeting him in 2011. He has been able to offer insights and assist people in even the most difficult of interpersonal and sexual struggles. Being well read and well studied on different theories and concepts, he readily integrates them into a personalized approach to each patient. The topics of sexuality and personal development have been an interest of his from the beginning and it is of no surprise that he focused his PhD on sex therapy. We rarely know in advance which fork in the road our lives will take. Wherever you are starting from, and wherever you want to go, you can trust that Dr. Lee Kinsey will be there for you as a knowledgeable therapist.

Cory is very approachable as a counselor often making her clients feel comfortable from the first session going forward. Her life skills as well as her professional training and ethical core sets her apart as an outstanding therapist. I recommend Cory to anyone looking for assistance with life issues.

Dr. Jackie Keish
Psychotherapist and owner - Southlake Counseling and Neurofeedback Center

Hal Barkley, Ph.D.
Chair, Department of Dispute Resolution and Counseling, and Faculty Member, SMU

Life is hard; not all the time, but usually more often than we would like. Because she understands this, Cory Montfort is quietly becoming one of the preeminent counselors in the north Texas area. She possesses a rare ability to connect with people when life has become difficult, to sense the origins of their pain, and then to reach out and hold their hand as new beginnings are discovered.”

What qualities do you want in a counselor? Most people want someone who is trustworthy, dependable, empathic, and with sound clinical skills. Those traits describe Cory Montfort perfectly. She offers insight, maturity, compassion, and understanding grounded in professionalism and integrity. Cory is a counseling professional with breadth of experience and depth of discernment. As the counselor I would choose for myself, I offer my highest recommendation for Cory Montfort.

Gay McAlister, Ph.D. LPC-S
Director, SMU Program in Counseling

Gay McAlister, Ph.D. LPC-S
Director, SMU Program in Counseling

What qualities do you want in a counselor? Most people want someone who is trustworthy, dependable, empathic, and with sound clinical skills. Those traits describe Cory Montfort perfectly. She offers insight, maturity, compassion, and understanding grounded in professionalism and integrity. Cory is a counseling professional with breadth of experience and depth of discernment. As the counselor I would choose for myself, I offer my highest recommendation for Cory Montfort.

"Laurie Poole has a gift of helping people open up. She’s compassionate and she understands that every couple has their own dance. We came to see her when conversations became miscommunications and lost-in-translations moments. We faced challenges of serious health issues that brought life altering changes. When we didn’t know what else we could do to bring life back into our marriage, Laurie was able to guide us in the right direction."

The Montfort Group

"Laurie Poole has a gift of helping people open up. She’s compassionate and she understands that every couple has their own dance. We came to see her when conversations became miscommunications and lost-in-translations moments. We faced challenges of serious health issues that brought life altering changes. When we didn’t know what else we could do to bring life back into our marriage, Laurie was able to guide us in the right direction."